Comfort Food

Hairy Bikers

Hairy Bikers

There is a popular programme on the BBC called the “Hairy Bikers: Mums Know Best“. The two presenters, the ‘Hairy Bikers’, travel the length and breadth of Britain to learn about family favourites and feature them on their show. And that got me thinking about my own family favourites.

Growing up, the one dish I’ll always ask for is the simple rava upma. Even now, my grandmother teases me that whenever I was asked what I wanted for my tiffin, my answer always would be “UPMA!”, like it was something special. But to me, it was! Especially because she always added some ‘contraband’ into my dish – onions were banned in my grandparents’ household but gran always diced one finely and added it to my dish, transporting the humble upma to a sublime level. Till today, the dish remains a firm favourite but though I try to follow my grandma’s instructions to the letter, it never tastes the same!

My mum too, is a super cook and she has the knack of adding a special something to every dish that elevates it up a few notches. For example, she always adds grated ginger to her chickpea sundal, which, apart from adding a new facet to the taste of the dish, also helps in digesting the legumes. She makes the most awesome ‘ennai kathirikkai’ (brinjal curry) that is my dad and my brother’s favourite dish ever. That is the one dish my brother made sure he learnt how to make before he moved abroad for his studies and that was the first dish my sister-in-law asked to teach her how to make, as it is his favourite. My husband’s favourite too his HIS mum’s ‘ennai kathirikkai’, made in the typical Telugu way, gravy style. Thus, in my kitchen, the humble brinjal gets a different makeover every time and my children, I am sure, will not be able to choose one brinjal dish as their favourite!

After watching the ‘Hairy Bikers’ and talking about it with the spouse and the children, we concluded that we each had our favourite dishes but none that could be classified as a ‘family’ favourite. My son likes Spaghetti Bolognese while my daughter’s too young to have a special dish of her own yet. But we have embarked on a mission now, to carve our own family dish, one we can all claim to love, one that will earn me the ultimate seal of approval as a mum! If I want my son to boast “not like how my mum makes it” in the future, I better get cracking!

In the meantime, do tell what is your family favourite. What did you like the most when you were growing up? What is the ultimate comfort food for your family now?

Sticking to your fitness goals

Tempting homemade muffins

Hmmm! Tempting!

Well that is not an easy thing, is it? For people like me, the serpent needn’t try very hard to tempt me away from the good stuff. While good health is its own reward, tucking into E-number-less fare can sometimes be extremely, well, boring. This is why it is considered a good idea to incorporate a cheat meal into your weekly healthy meal plan. Rosemary Conley, the diet guru, apparently eats a square of chocolate every year and that’s her only vice. For the rest of us mortals, the cheat meals have to feature a bit more frequently to keep us on the straight and narrow.

But sometimes, the prospect of a double chocolate scoop a Sunday isn’t enough. Lord knows, my crunchy peanut butter calls out to me when no one is around and sirens luring sailors would have come a poor second compared to that. So what do you do when you need something more to help you stick to the guns? What spurs me on is this favourite pair of chinos that I love but haven’t worn in almost 10 years. Last time I fit into it, I was 4 months pregnant with my son and my expanding girth finally made me put away my regular clothes. As my waist hasn’t seen 28 inches again, I have never been able to wear it and it just sits at the bottom of my cupboard. I imagine wearing it again and it gives me this burst of energy needed to walk past the crisps aisle. When that isn’t enough, I imagine walking past some of the people I dislike the most (who are, invariably, stick insects) being the only plus-size around! I’d never walk away from peanut butter as fast as in that moment.

There are other ways too and one tip, suggested by a Twitter mate (thanks @happyhippy58!) is to have penny jars – three, to be exact. Two reward jars, one for exercise and one for food, for you to put a coin in when you have been eating and exercising well that day. The third jar is the naughty jar – money from the good jars go in here if you skip your workout or sneak in a Mars bar while out and about. The money from the good jars can finally go towards a well-deserved treat! Good, eh?

A friend pointed me towards this site – where you can make your pledge (lose weight, give up fags) and put your money where your mouth is. And – here’s the best bit – if you don’t succeed, the money you pledged will go to something you dislike, like the political party whose beliefs you cannot stand! I bet if my £10 were going to BNP, I would keep well and truly away from Friday night pizza!

So, a well-deserved massage paid out of your goodie jar or losing your pledge to the whack jobs of the world, what spurs you on? What helps you stick to your fitness goals?

Break Time!

Weight loss plateau

And so I fell off the wagon. Spectacularly, I might add! Yes, I, who had been so diligent with the new diet and exercise routine, finally cracked last Monday. It was half-term week and my son was home from school the whole week. As a treat I was making the kids homemade burgers and curly fries – something that will def get the hounds of hell after me! Here I was, placidly standing while mixing up the defrosted spinach into the grated cooked potato, making them into patties and frying and then suddenly, I snapped.

You see, my weight loss had plateaued.

In the beginning, I had a super run – lost 1 kilo in 3 days, which moved on to 2.5 kilos in 10 days. I was eating loads (of the good stuff), exercising well and was feeling fabulous. No mood swings thanks to lack of spike in blood sugar levels caused due to sugar dump from bad carbs and I was happier than Larry. Till it stalled.

At first, I ignored it and just plodded on. Then watched what I ate, ditched the post workout sweet potato. Dropped Intermittent fasting. Still no dice. Then the coach changed my exercise routine. Consciously drank more water. Nothing happened.

So when I made the veg burgers for my children and was about to start making my super healthy lunch, I had a WTF moment. Within minutes, I was feeling sorry for myself, for the plateau and angry as hell with something, don’t know what, for stalling my weight loss, despite me being so good. Pretty soon, I was in a full-on woe is me mode and decided enough was enough and ate a cutlet for lunch instead. Before the last morsel was down my gullet, I had another one. Then ate some of the kids’ fries from their plates. Finally got myself a plate and served me a large serving of the curly fries, dipped them in ketchup and called it lunch.

By tea-time, I was feeling mighty ashamed of the potato fest I had called lunch and decided to get started on my workout early. But that day, I found it hard going. Where I used to do 40 jumping jacks without pause, I was stopping after #20. As the workout continued, I was breathing harder, feeling light-headed and generally out of sorts. After I finished and sat down with my protein shake, I started feeling queasy. Within minutes, the light-headedness had become proper dizziness and it was all I could do to flop back against my chair.

I remained so, feeling drained and piss-poor for the better part of an hour. Hubby came home from work and seeing my pathetic state, started dinner, while I was going through my post-carb-blowout withdrawal like a junkie coming down from a high.

And that was last Monday. After two more days of feeling sorry for myself, I decided I shall go on a diet break now. For 10 days, starting last Wednesday and till Sunday Mar 6, I am not going to stick to my usual routine. My initial thought was to live it up – but after feeling like warmed up crap after eating two back to back carb-laden meals, I changed my mind double-quick!  I am now eating healthily 2 out of 3 meals a day and instead of my usual workout, I am doing the 3-miler with Leslie Sansone. I am also using this time to re-evaluate my fitness goals, read up on nutrition (I am especially interested in Ayurvedic cooking) and see how it goes.

This weekend is our anniversary and P’s birthday so am going to whoop it up before getting back on the wagon on March 7. I have been promised by Coach (newly certified Kettlebell instructor – WOOT!) that he’ll be breathing down my neck big time. Think Richard Callender and Angie Dowds combined! That’s how badass he is!

PS: I do understand that weight-loss plateaus are normal – but the reason I took it so hard was that I expected to reach a magic size by March 4. Instead of just thinking “I need to get fitter and eat healthier”, I did the usual blunder of “I should be able to get into a skinny jean in 2 months time”. And when that didn’t go according to plan, I fell apart. There’s a lesson for you!

Link Love Sunday

Let us have a round up of some diet-and-fitness themed articles that appeared in cyberspace this week that got my interest.

Fitness geek & Crossfit certified trainer Arvind Ashok put up a short and crisp list of easy hacks to get us on our way to a healthier life.

Raj Ganpath of HBFSER continued in a similar way to give us a nutrition cheat sheet to make our choices a bit easier.

Great news for spinach lovers as new research says that the green leaf has the power to increase muscle mass. Go Popeye!

4 Things women’s workout must consist of, by them in the know at US Fitness news.

A very well written post on weight loss from the Perfect Health Diet blog.

To round off this weeks’ links, here’s an intro to intermittent fasting. I have been doing this for the past month and it isn’t half as hard as I thought it will be. Try it.